10 August 2005 @ 01:02 am
*grumble*  
I did a bit of unfriending, cos I cannot keep up at all. Basically I cut people who have no entries, have no interests, haven't updated since last year and people who I have hardly and connection with.

I wasn`t as thorough as I would like to be, but I really had a hard time kicking off people. A very hard time. Just as I have a hard time not adding all the peeps who have friended me lately. I'm not sure what to do about it really, but I don't think it's a good sign if I constantly mix up the people on my flist or wonder who they are. My memory is srikingly bad and I don't think I'd do you guys justice. You deserve more.

As such, the fandom related posts as the art related posts are public. Most my posts are public anyways, cos I forget to lock them. To anyone who did friend me... it means a lot, really a lot..that you are interested in being here and even if I don't friend you back..I will check on your ljs on occasion and comment.

Anyways, I won't be on lj as much as usually until I haven't finished this webpage project I'm working on... I'm cursing the fact that I wanted to make it xml valid...grrr... but alas.. it will be worth it.

Happy belated birthday [livejournal.com profile] phoiniks and my chica [livejournal.com profile] subaia. I wish you the BEEEST!!!!

ps: look at my kickass new Ron icon! oh..and I will reply to emails..swear..just that stupid webpage is taking me loads longer than I thought.
 
 
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[identity profile] elli.livejournal.com on August 10th, 2005 09:26 pm (UTC)
Re: Oh and the second part...
I guess the ting is, that lj is in a way a personal space. It is harder to work ll because you get the personality with the content and people are less likely to enter the room of another person. I guess in a way you share a part of yourself. My posts are largely impersonal, but I do have posts that are extremely personal on occasion and I guess I'm paranoid, cos I wanna know who is reading those posts. And I want to get to know the people who do. I know a lot of people don`t agree much, but I cannot not do it. That why I don't like friending icon journals. It doesn't let me know the person, just a product said person is producing.

Noone says you have to participate, but people won't really care much for you if you don't make an effort. Like in real live relationships take work and it sucks... but that is as it is here too.

And just know this... I can only say this for myself, but I think I speek for everyone when I say this. Every comment, every word, every written feedback or whatever, makes me squeee..makes me feel appreciated and warm.

And I don't mind. :)